Who doesn’t like a good whinge every now and then. Yes, sometimes it’s a form of therapy when things go sideways, however, it can easily slide into complaining, which doesn’t solve anything. ‘The more time you spend complaining about what you deserve, the less time you have to focus on what you can create. Focus on what you can control.’ (J.Clear) This advice is especially true when we think about our own situation, what we have vs what we want. We’re not victims, we are people that can focus on the areas of our life that are under our control, and we can ensure we act and respond in a way that is positive and leads us to the destination we are looking for in our life.