Many times I wish people were better than what they are, and I suppose others think the same of me. So how can we help others (and ourselves) become better? An interesting outcome I’ve discovered is that generally when I expect the best from others, they tend to deliver on that expectation – they’re better what what could be the norm. And if they come in at a lower level, that highlights an opportunity for me to help them grow and become better as an individual. So I think starting with an expectation of “better”, and following up with “how can I help” with better is the solution.