Part 2 of who I want to be: ‘..whose ambitions are not confined to their own selfish desires; who’ll not say they do it “because everybody else does it”; who are true to their friends through good report and evil report, in adversity as well as in prosperity; who do not believe that shrewdness, cunning and hard-headedness are the best qualities for winning success; who are not afraid to stand for the truth even when it’s unpopular; who say “no” with emphasis, even though the rest of the world says “yes”.’ Try weighing yourself on those scales!’ (T.Engstrom) Several challenging concepts here. I know I have a bit of work to do yet.